Sunday 11 September 2011

Save Your Marriage

PEOPLE MARRY WHEN THEY FALL IN LOVE
Some issues to be discussed within the marriage are would be can your partner handle the problems that arises during marriage,would he or she be willing to get professional help when the going gets tough, as well as discussing infidelity, infertility, aging parents, job layoffs or unexpected illness or death, is he or she aware about the predictable stages that couples pass despite their deep love for each other, does he or she know that although marriage is the greatest institution established on earth, it is only for the strong-hearted and it only takes one partner to end a marriage and finally discuss with your spouse under what circumstances would he or she feels that the marriage can be considered as over.

WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS OR SIGNS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTER?
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If your spouse loves you, they will honor your requests no matter how weird it may be. There are several signs of a marital break-up where a man will evidently notice but woman will know by their intuition most times. If your spouse has stopped not communicate with you then then is a sign that your marriage is on the rocks. Your spouse might be upset with you over something else that occurred earlier that day and your spouse might be showing their unhappiness through petty squabbles or sour remarks. You have to show that you are on your spouses side and that you care when they are in a bad mood. If your spouse stays on one side of the bed while sleeping and intimacy has become a forgotten item on your agenda then this is a red big flag that your marriage is falling apart. There are many possible reasons why your spouse is avoiding you and some of those reason could be that your spouse might be having problems at work, your spouse maybe financially stressed out or your spouse might be going through some personal issues and if one of these reasons are the cause of the distance between you to, the best thing for you to do is to let him know that you are there to listen and to give him love and support.

WHAT WILL YOU TO DO WHEN YOU ARE AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE?
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Accepting that your marriage is on the brink could influence the future outcome between divorce and a happy union. When you are enrage, you become off balance, and could soon recover your balance. Books aplenty are sold in your favorite bookstores. Your negative reaction is a one way ticket toward a divorce.

WHAT ARE COMMON EMOTIONS FELT WHEN THERE IS MARITAL CRISIS?
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What are some damaging myths about saving a marriage?
Myth 1. Pessimism is the feeling that there is no solution available and even marriage counselors cannot help. You should improve your communications skills to keep your marriage. It is the end of happiness, ones' family and security of a home.

HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?
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Tell him to give you space and enough time to think things out. Talk to your friends, support group and others acquaintances that might be knowledgeable about the affair.

WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?
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Although money can't buy happiness, it is important. Refrain from being jealous. Let your spouse hold on to their dreams and give them 100 support to achieve her goals in life. Emotionally or physically abusing abuse a spouse will bring the day closer to disaster, when he/she will decide that enough is enough. Recall the memories of your courtship, relive the thrill and excitement you shared on your dates, the places you have visited and your honeymoon. Disillusionment grows when expectations are unfulfilled. Respect the privacy of your spouse.

HOW CAN YOU PRESERVE YOUR MARRIAGE?
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Don't use the children as an excuse to avoid each other. Strive to eat at least one meal a day together. When you appreciate yourself, the feeling will contaminate your husband and he will feel the same way too. Write each other love notes, reminders that you are in love, reconnect by emphasizing your spouse best qualities and remember these are the qualities which made you fall in love with him. By going on a date, there is no alternative than to dress up to show your spouse how attractive you still are. Plan activities that are only for the two of you. You can't save your marriage if your spouse does not cooperate.

CAN MARRIAGE BE SAVED?
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Having excellent marriage quality depends on being able to disagree without inflicting permanent damage upon the relationship. Do you want to be part of the statistics? It is never too late to change and decide to turn over a new leaf. According to statistics, there are 2 million divorces each year.


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SAVE MARRIAGE                             
IF THERE IS HOPE, THERE IS A WAY

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